Sunday, July 30, 2023

BAAYEIN HAATH KA KHEL

The oldest golf tournament in the world, The Open or the British Open as some call it for easier identification, was held last week. The Open was first held in 1860 and the 2023 Championship was the 151st.

As in Tennis, Golf has four tournaments that are recognised as 'Major'. These are The Masters, US Open and PGA Championship played in the USA and The Open played in UK. Anyone winning all four in a calendar year would be said to have won a Grand Slam.

So far, no one in the modern era has achieved that feat though Tiger Woods came close to it by winning the last 3 Majors in 2000 and The Masters in 2001 thus holding all 4 trophies simultaneously. The only player ever to have won the Grand Slam was the US player Bobby Jones in 1930 when it comprised of different championships.

Around 150 of the best golfers in the world contest each of the Majors and the competition is intense. Two or more well-known players fight it out till the end and the lead keeps changing making for an exciting finish. Often, there is a tie at the end of 72 holes and the leaders play a few more 'sudden death' holes till a winner emerges. 

Many golfers starting the final round with a comfortable lead have been known to suffer a meltdown and end up way down from the top. Perhaps the best example was at the 1999 Open when the Frenchman Jean Van de Velde had a 3-stroke lead on the final tee. That is big and everyone thought he had won The Open. As he drove off the 18th tee, the crowd was applauding who they thought was the new Champion and de Velde was acknowledging their cheers with a contented smile. Foolish aggression, however, brought him grief, he lost the 3-stroke advantage, the match went into sudden death and the Frenchman ended up losing the trophy.

Golf is essentially a right hand game and there are fewer left handed players compared to other games. With 14 clubs of different lofts, clubs have to be specially made for lefties. Many like my cousin Rajiv, natural left handers, end up playing right handed. Prior to 2023, there were only two left handed golfers who had won The Open. Bob Charles of New Zealand was the first in 1963 and the American Phil Mickelson in 2013. Overall, the Majors have had only 4 winners including Charles and Mickelson at The Open, Mickelson with 3 Masters and 2 PGAs, American Bubba Watson with 2 Masters and Canadian Mike Weir also with 1 Masters. No lefty has won the US Open though Phil Mickelson has ended up runners-up on a number of occasions at times losing the lead after 54 holes.

It is also interesting to note that contrary to lefties becoming right handed for golf, Mickelson and Weir are actually right handers who play only golf left handed! Mickelson said he learned his golf by mirroring his father's right hand swing.

With the 2023 Open, Brian Harman became only the 3rd left hander to win that tournament and just the 5th to win a Major. 

There is a saying in Hindi, 'Yeh to baayein haath ka khel hai', meaning that the task is so simple that it could be accomplished by anyone using his left hand. The saying assumes the person to be a normal right hander finishing the job easily even with his left hand. But let us take it literally for now.

In winning The Open, Harman defied a number of odds. To start with, he is a left hander and, therefore, at an inherent disadvantage. Then, he was way down in the rankings competing against favourites like Scheffler of US,  McIlroy of Ireland and Rahm of Spain, world nos. 1, 2 and 3 respectively, and other well-known players. Harman's past record was nothing exciting having won just 2 minor titles in his long professional career. His best finish was in the 2017 US Open when he had the lead after 54 holes but blew it on the final day.

This year at The Open, he stormed into a 4-stroke lead after a brilliant second round. On the third day, he held firm to increase the lead to 5, something unusual in a Major. When Tiger Woods was going into large leads in the Majors in early 2000s, it was expected of him; he was in his 20s, recognised as a prodigy, and a crowd favourite. But Harman was all of 36 with his best years expected to be behind him and largely unrecognised.

Harman was determined to prove everyone wrong and win this Major. In 17 holes on the final day, he had played steady golf and increased his lead to 6. On the last hole, he played carefully but still landed in the bunker with his 3rd shot. Ah, was there going to be a massive meltdown now? No sir, his bunker shot was first-rate and his putt right in for a par and he had preserved his 6-shot lead right to the end. The prize money was US $ 3 million and if he had bet on himself at odds of 125 to 1, he would have added substantially to his winnings.

He had proved, 'Yeh to baayein haath ka khel hai'!

Tailpiece: A man and his wife were avid golfers. She fell sick and thought she was going to die. So she called her husband to her bedside and said, "Darling, when I am no more, please do marry again. I would hate to see you lonely."

He: "That's very sweet of you, my dear."

She: "You can give her all my jewellery."

He: "If you say so, dearest."

She: "Also my dresses."

He: "That's too kind."

She: "And my golf set."

He: "No dear, that I can not."

She: "Why, darling? Do you love me so much that you cannot give my set to anybody else?"

He: "No dear. She is left-handed."



  


Friday, July 28, 2023

GOODBYE SINEAD O'CONNOR AND TONY BENNETT


Two celebrated singers passed away in the last few days. 

Sinead O’Connor’s death was declared on 26 July by her family. The cause of death is unknown but she was just 56. 

Sinead hit the top of the charts in 1990 with the deeply moving song ‘Nothing Compares 2 U’. Ruchir, Shumita and I would listen to it many times in a day and I still play the video often. The video is exceptional for the intense passion Sinead puts in the song. In my list, it is right on top of love and heartbreak songs. 

It reminds me of three similar songs from my younger days sung with enormous feeling. Johnnie Ray recorded ‘Cry’ in 1951. There was no video those days but it sounded as if Ray was actually crying while singing the song. The other two, ‘I’ll Never Fall in Love Again’ and ‘Yesterday’ are by Tom Jones who sounds and looks as if he is breaking down while singing the songs.

I don’t really know more about Sinead but that one song is unforgettable. Nothing compares to ‘Nothing Compares 2 U’.

Tony Bennett was 40 years her senior and breathed his last on 20 July, a little short of 97.  He came into the limelight in 1951 with ‘Because of You’ and kept bringing out hits after hits in a career lasting 70 years. His last disc release was ‘Love For Sale’ with Lady Gaga in 2021 with which he broke the individual record for the longest run of a top-10 album on the Billboard 200 chart for any living artist with his first Top 10 record being ‘I Left My Heart in San Francisco’ in 1962. With ‘Love For Sale’, he also broke the Guinness World Record for the oldest person to release an album of new material at the age of 95+. In his long career, he won 20 Grammies, a Lifetime Achievement Award and a star on Hollywood Walk of Fame.

His singing style was smooth like that of Frank Sinatra who said of Bennett in 1965,  “For my money, Tony Bennett is the best singer in the business”.

Apart from ‘Because of You’ and ‘I Left My Heart in San Francisco’, my pick of his songs includes, ‘Stranger in Paradise’, ‘I Get a Kick Out of You’, ‘Don’t Get Around Much Any More’, ‘I Can’t Give You Anything But Love’ , and ‘Cheek to Cheek’ with Lady Gaga. And special mention for ‘Shoo-Gah (My Pretty Sugar)’ which I wrote about in my earlier post, ‘Sugar is Sweet'.

Sinead O'Connor and Tony Bennett, RIP.

 

Wednesday, July 19, 2023

SUMMER 2023 IN JAIPUR - JUNE BUSTIN' OUT ALL OVER

Ruchir's plans were for a summer holiday for all of us in Italy but Akhila was not feeling quite fit, so she and I decided against travel abroad and take a break in Jaipur. 

Our main concern was the usual scorching heat in the summer of north India. But from the word go, we were treated to rain and cool weather. Rain accompanied us on the car journey from Delhi and we reached home in Jaipur welcomed by a dancing peacock on 'mori atariya' across our front lawn.. Mostly, the weather remained like that throughout our month and a half stay and the daily temperatures were about 32/24, reminding us of Singapore where all through the year, it was like that with the maximum reading a degree up meaning heat wave and the minimum degree one down indicating time for winter wear! 

My cousin Rajiv, who is settled in Jaipur and plays golf eight days a week, got me to join him a number of times and we had some enjoyable games at the Rambagh Golf Club. On one pleasant afternoon, we got talking about songs from his father and my Vinnie Mama's long playing disc collection of Rodgers and Hammerstein musical classics which I have described in my previous blog, 'Nostalgic Music Banter'. Indeed, it was June bustin' out all over just as in 'Carousel'.

Then came Rajiv's birthday and he and his sweet wife, Reena, asked us to join them for dinner They offered two choices for the venue- Meraki Kitchen and Niro's, and I had no hesitation in picking the latter, the old restaurant which is my favourite having opened in 1949, just one year before we moved to Jaipur. The decor obviously keeps changing but the basic structure remains the same making me feel at home. The present owner has followed the family tradition of studying at St. Xavier's. He proudly told me he was from the 1977 batch but was slightly shaken when I said I was of 1954 vintage. I asked my pet question whether 'Knickerbocker Glory' sundae continued to be on the A La Carte and was happy to get a 'yes'. This exclusive dessert has been on their menu since they opened the restaurant. Rajiv insisted on ordering it though we were quite full. Finally we went for 'one into two'; it was delicious but I found I couldn't finish my half. Wonder how I used to scrape the glass clean in my younger days!

In the third week of June, Shumita and her sons, Shiven and Raghav,  came over for 5 days. Shumita tried to fit in as much sightseeing as she could for the boys and we joined them whenever we could.

The famous travel writer, Paul Theroux, has said that he has travelled extensively all over the world and yet there is so much more to see. However, there was very little excuse for us not to have visited the wild life sanctuary of Jhalana, famous for its leopards, which is just ten kms. from our house. No wonder, Rambagh Palace was once a hunting lodge! So it was nice to fill in that blank by visiting the sanctuary with Shumita and the boys. 

Our safari began with a climb up on to a 'machaan' which gives a spectacular view of the whole sanctuary. When we got back into our jeep, our driver received a tip-off about a leopard whereabouts. So he drove to the spot and there was the leopard, Rana, just ten metres from us, sitting unperturbed on a wall, refreshing itself by licking its limbs. It then went to sleep while all the watchers in about a dozen vehicles waited quietly and patiently for it to move. After what seemed an eternity, it rose majestically, climbed down the wall and strolled to a water hole nearby. By now, it was almost sunset and it had been about 90 minutes with Rana. So we left it as it continued to lap up water from the pond. A rewarding trip with the satisfaction of a long, clear sighting and lots of photos.

We had a number of meals out with Shumita and the boys. As Rambagh Palace had just been named the World's No.1 Hotel by the renowned tour company, TripAdvisor, in its Travellers' Choice Awards, a dinner at the Hotel's Suvarna Mahal Restaurant was a must. The Manager offered to take us around the Hotel including the lavish Sawai Man Singh and Maharani Gayatri Devi suites- last words in luxury!

At Narain Niwas Palace, we knew about the colourful Bar Palladio and Shikar Bagh Restaurant with rickshaws and buggies serving as tables on the lawn, but discovered a new place, Cafe Orleans, set on one side of the large verandah. It is said that the founder of Narain Niwas, late General Amar Singh, who was stationed in Orleans, France, during WWI, became fond of travel and French cuisine and the Cafe was set up as a tribute to him and to preserve his legacy. Indeed, we were impressed by the coffee and snacks served, the decor largely in light blue and the view of the Palace gardens through floor-to-ceiling arched windows.

We were nearing the end of our stay and wanted to have a get-together before leaving. Date suitable to all turned out to be 4 July, American Independence Day, and we thought it would be a good idea to celebrate the fresh bonhomie between Joe Biden and Narendra Modi. So we had a dinner at Rambagh Golf Club with the weather perfect for sitting in the outdoor Hut overlooking the 2nd and 3rd fairways and the 2nd green.

Not by design but later, I realised something special about the small gathering at Dinner. The naval ranks were represented from Commander to full Admiral with an officer from each rank. (I am cheating a bit as I am counting myself as both  Captain and Commodore considering the latter is more of an appointment in the Navy. It would have been totally accurate if Capt RN Singh had not declined as he was not feeling well). Also, it was a distinguished gathering as there were three gentlemen who had reached the top of their profession: Admiral Madhvendra Singh, head of Indian Navy, Lt Gen/Vice Adm Karni Singh, highest rank in the Defence Services medical branch, and Kamal Surana, top Indian jeweller. 

Oh, and 4 July is also Akhila's birthday.

No trip to Jaipur is complete without my paying a call on the resident doyen of the Navy, Capt RN Singh. Apart from being confined to a wheelchair due to his age, he had a throat infection and we kept putting off our meeting till the day before my departure. Finally, I called on him at the Diggi Palace, a stone's throw from my house, and as usual, got talking about our fun times in the Navy. His stories need to be told in detail and I hope to compile them at a later date. For the time being let me just say that he is perhaps one of the very few people in the world to have travelled from UK to India by air, road and sea.

Delhi beckoned and we hit the road promising to come back to Jaipur soon. My favourite quote, "I haven't been everywhere but it's on my list" comes to mind with  Castle Kanota, Meraki Kitchen, Serai Brews Cafe.....




Sunday, July 2, 2023

GROW OLD OR STAY YOUNG?

Almost every day, a classmate or coursemate turns 84/85. Spouses are clocking 75-80. Are we growing old?

In his unforgettable song in "Gigi", Maurice Chevalier is glad he is not young anymore-

'How lovely to sit here in the shade, with none of the woes of man and maid....

No more confusion, no morning-after surprise,

No self-delusion that when you are telling those lies, she isn't wise....

No more frustation, no star-crossed lover am I....

I've never been so comfortable before,

I'm so glad I'm not young anymore.'

But he does not say he is 'old'!

In her classic song 'Abhi Toh Mein Jawan Hoon', Malika Pukhraj has no thought of giving up her 'jawani'-

'Abhi toh mein jawan hoon....

Yeh bulbulon ke chahchahey, yeh gulrukhon keh qah-qahey,

Yeh ishq ki kahaaniyaan, yeh ras bhari jawaaniyaan, 

Woh raag chherh mutriba, tarab-fizaa alam-rubaa,

Asar sadaa-e-saaz-ka, jigar mein aag de lagaa,

Har ik lab pe ho sadaa, na haath rok saaqiyaa, pilaaye ja pilaaye ja,

Abhi toh mein jawan hoon.'

And why not? Robert De Niro and Al Pacino have become fathers again at 83. Whenever Akhila and I show reluctance at travelling, Ruchir quotes the example of Frank Wisner, former US Ambassador to India, who at 85, with half his body parts replaced, keeps constantly on the move all over the world as a member of various organisations. The other day I read about an Indian lady who at 106 regularly takes part in Veteran races and recently won three medals!

On entering teens, one is impatient to become an adult. At the age if 14, I went and got myself a shaving kit. Vinnie Mama saw it and told me not to be in a hurry as, in time, I would have to shave every day, maybe more, and get tired of the daily ritual. That observation has come true as I have now made it an alternate day affair sometimes extended by another non-shaving day. And I repeat Vinnie Mama's advice to my grandsons.

Part of growing up, love happens. Little Rita Faye sang a sweet song of a schoolgirl whose mother had to tell her to 'Wait A Little Longer'-

' I've got a sweetheart, he carries home my books,

He stays in my dollhouse and says he likes my looks,

I'll tell you a secret, he wants to marry me,

But Mama says that I'm too little to have such thoughts as these.

So wait a little longer, till I'm a little bit older,

I'll love you and kiss you too, I'll be a little bit bolder.'

Chances are 'Mama' had the experience of her mother's advice at the former's daughter's age!

So one goes through the ups and downs of life with one's own experiences till one may realise as Charles Aznavour put it-

'Yesterday when I was young, there were so many songs that waited to be sung,

So many wild pleasures that lay in store for me....

I ran so fast that time and youth at last ran out,

I never stopped to think what life was all about.'

But all songs can never be sung and one should be content, happy and grateful for those which one could sing. The sinking feeling of the roller-coaster of life going down is pleasantly relieved by the thrill and pleasure of ristng. Maurice Chevalier may be glad in not being young anymore but in our hearts, we should hark to Frank Sinatra-

'Fairytales can come true, it can happen to you if you're young at heart,

For it's hard you will find, to be narrow of mind if you're young at heart,

You can go to extremes with impossible schemes,

You can laugh when your dreams fall apart at the seams....

Don't you know that it's worth every treasure on earth to be young at heart,

For as rich as you are, it's much better by far, to be young at heart.

And if you should survive to 105, look at all you'll derive out of being alive....

If you are among the very young at heart.'

For our loved ones (and, hopefully, vice versa!), there is Nat King Cole-

'You will never grow old, while there's love in your heart,

Time may silver your golden hair, as you dream in an old rocking chair.

So keep my love in your heart, remember the love tales we told,

For with my love in your heart, my darling,

You will never grow old.'

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